Blog Posts
These blog posts cover a variety of topics that I feel strongly about. Dive in for some additional thoughts on sexuality, shame, relationships and consent.
- Shame, Sexuality and Living Through SpiralsShame is such a stumbling block when it comes to figuring out and living joyfully in your sexuality – and so many of us are swimming in it. Religions that …
- Sexuality, Professionalism & Abstinence Only EducationWhen you put allosexual, alloromantic folks together, I guarantee you some of those folks are going to find others attractive. Attraction is built into our bodies because as humans we …
- Here’s One For You: Spontaneity vs Consent[The following was originally posted on Kinkopedia in 2014] It’s not the first time I’ve been presented the words spontaneity and consent like they’re complete opposites of a coin, only one happening …
- Tips for navigating consent in a changing worldWith the uptake of visibility around sexual harassment and assault, it may feel like suddenly the standards of what’s “okay” and what’s “not okay” have changed wildly leaving you scared …
- Enthusiastic Consent on a Personal LevelThere’s an article making the rounds right now about how one sex party host has built a culture of consent at their party through a series of rules and agreements. …
- On Sexual FreedomOn June 12, 2016 I woke up to two things. News of the murder of 49 people – mostly Latinx and people of colour – at Pulse nightclub in Orlando, …